Pregnancy is always discussed by women. From conceiving up to delivery. There were lucky moms who made it to the delivery rooms without much of a fuss, while there are others who nearly swears to never get pregnant again. From the first month on, it was a struggle. Morning sickness, headache, backache, gas pain and ultra sensitivity to smell...you name it all. A friend once told me, there was a time (as in all at the same time) that she's got hot water bottle on her back, ice bag on her head and another little hot pack on her upper tummy just to ease the pain. Her doctor had almost run out of advise as to how to alleviate the pain she's experiencing.
But, no matter how hard the pregnancy is, there is always a brighter side to look forward to. Just the thought of adding another member to your family is a gift in itself. Despite the difficulties, you have to find a way to cheer yourself up and think about the people who makes you feel cherished. They are always there to support you and makes you feel beautiful despite the bulge and swelling feet. Think of delightful pregnancy stories you have heard from other people. Try not to think of the difficulties but the rewards. Also, it does not hurt to ask for help when it's getting too much for you to handle. Get your partner to do things that you cannot, considering your condition. Let him prepare meals, wash the dishes and do the laundry. Yes, milk it for what its worth! Finally, take comfort on the thought that all the difficulties are temporary. They will be outweighed by the joy and happiness when your cherub has finally arrived. When you look back, you will only have one thing to say...yes - it is all worth it all along.
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